The HONEST Reason Why I Don't Want Children
Reflecting after a year of Unplugged...
It has been over a year since we first introduced Unplugged with our video, I don’t ever want to be a mother — here’s why. As we explored in the video, choosing to be childfree can be very contentious whether you’re a couple making a conscious decision, or someone who makes YouTube videos for a living 😉😉
Today’s video is a little different. Think of this video as more of a heart-to-heart chat. Just me and you. I’m revisiting some of the common reasons why people choose not to have children and why they may or may not resonate with me.
Yes, I still don’t want to have kids, but the reason I resonate most with might surprise you!
This is a young project in its first year, we are super curious to hear your reaction, feedback, and thoughts, so do not hesitate to write us back to this email.
Thanks for being part of the unplugged tribe ❤
I love your perspective. I also recognized your book reference in the beginning.
I, too, don't desire children for a multitude of reasons. I think society isn't fair towards the people & choices made by these people (I am one of "these" people) based on an age old narrative placed on women.
Almost a year late but here we are. Thanks for your honesty and your inner work in doing so. I wish my parents had done that, altho that simply didnt happen mid last century. That's kinda existential as I shouldn't be here, but here I am. And relating to your return to Poland, I'm facing that big time: I lost all my money and returned "home" as a way mom found 2 help me, billeting me until I find my next chapter. In the process however I'm facing all the family stuff you mention, from self worth to society's pressures. So thanks again as a fellow traveller.